Welcome to Romania.

Without Borders…

It was close to midnight when we crossed over the Budapest border into Romania, it was a feeling of assuredness that God had destined us to be there. At the border, we were approached by a female Romanian border agent who asked us for our passports. She took 1 good look at the van full of musicians and gear and in Romanian asked Dwight, “Are you guys Christians?” and Dwight kindly said “Yes”. She then asked us to park to the side. After a few minutes of waiting in the cover of night, she came back over to give us back our passports with a beaming smile and said “Welcome to Romania, I hope the camp goes well!”. Dwight said she was happy to see us. Good signs to hear when you are leading a team on an adventure into the unknown!

Take me deeper where my trust is without borders, let me walk upon the waters wherever you may call me….

Dwight

Dwight is our missionary leader and contact in Romania for this trip. We’ve been meeting once a month via Google hangout for about 4 months prior as a team to discuss, prepare, and pray for this awesome trip. When we finally met him in person at the Budapest airport, he was much taller than I imagined him to be from the computer screen and seemingly towered over me with his height and head of grayed hair, his smiling eyes behind his round glasses, his round face, button nose, rosy cheeks, and a cheery smile. He has the voice of a narrator like on a documentary in the History channel or the national geographic. But he’s incredibly gentle, full of joy, and has a huge heart for revival in Romania! He has so much vision for Romanians to come to know Christ in all of His love and not just what they read on paper. He yearns for Romanians to come to know Christ through relationship with Him and not by obligation of being accepted into a culture. That’s why he wanted withLove to come to Romania because he saw exactly what he was looking for in us as a ministry – full of God’s love. Not only did we have a bible, but we also came armed with mics, guitars, keyboards, drums, and amps. He’s an All-American doing missions work in Romania with his family for 20 years. He felt called to Romania after finding out that his great-great-great-great grandfather was in the Romanian history books as a key leader and was coincidently in the same place and time (milestone anniversary) of a key historic event that his ancestor was a part of! He has a beautiful wife, Melissa, and 4 beautiful children – 2 daughters (2, 5), and 2 sons (8, 10). Dwight is a great guy all-around, he’s an awesome leader with a humble soul and a heart of service – a pastoral calling on his life! He was our driver, our tour leader, translator, and liaison to the local church leaders. And in doing all of this, he is an absolute joy to just be around because he keeps it real and keeps it fun!

 

Romania, the Beautiful

Romania is a beautiful country with a rich history of about 6000 years! The culture is very much engrained into the identity of Romanians everywhere. Most recently, Romania is in transition from the fall of the communist era in 1989. Meaning that they are about 25 years out of an oppressive era and culture. That’s barely 1 generation! During the communist era, things like work camps existed, where you were literally worked you to death, there were long lines of starving people to simply get bread, the only religion was Orthodox Christian (very similar to Roman Catholicism), and conformity was king. The revolution against communism took place in 1989 and started in Timisoara, which was the city that we were going to!

Timisoara

Timisoara is a major city of Romania that has the largest income per capita in the whole country! It sits right near the beautiful Carpathian Mountains infamously home to Transylvania and Count Dracula…. What’s funny is that Count Dracula was made up in Hollywood and Romanians don’t even know who he is! Thank you Hollywood.

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Gypsies

We also saw many gypsies otherwise known as “Roma” in Romania. They look of Indian decent and are your common beggar just like you would see a panhandler or someone homeless in the U.S. However, gypsies are also known for being a culture of drug addicts, thieves, and entertainers to make a living. They are also a result of the fall of communism because during that time, the government sponsored many orphanages. But when the government fell, so did the orphanages – leaving many orphans without a home or anyone to go to for support. So where did they go? To the sewers underground and leaning on each other and doing whatever they can make a living. To cope with the pain and way of life, drugs ease the reality of an undesirable life that they now face every day. They are known as the scum of the community, the outcasts, the shamed, and no country wants them. They are commonly associated with Romania because of their name “Roma”, but they have nothing to do with Romania, and Romanians hate that association with them. Europe believes this to be true that many countries round up the gypsies and throw them into Romania thinking that’s where they belong! It’s about 25 years and now those orphans are having children of their own, now creating a sub-culture in Europe. It’s a sad history and more of a reason why God’s love would embrace the “least of these” in a culture where you embrace being a “nobody” or an outcast and you have to be okay with that. This world needs more love!

Bradatel

After getting all the sound equipment and supplies from Timisoara, we made our way deep into the Carpathian Mountains to get to the camp called “Bradatel” which is in this beautiful valley where the morning sun rays don’t reach the bottom of the valley until 10am! It’s an incredibly scenic route as you see gorgeous rolling foothills and trees covering mountain after mountain. You almost thought you were on your way to The Shire (Lord of the Rings). We get to the camp to find ourselves in awe of the mountains towering over us, the fresh air that breathed deep into our lungs, and the sounds of calm river running by us below. Then we ran into Romanians that were gathering at the camp! One word: beautiful. Danni, a Romanian pastor warned the band that there are many beautiful people in Romania, and we all brushed it off thinking we see beautiful people all the time! But I mean, these people were BE-A-UTIFUL. You would think they are your typical white person but speaking Romanian, but they aren’t! From their hair, to the eyes, to the shapes of their body was completely different then what we were used to! I couldn’t stop staring into their eyes because many of them almost had this emerald color which I rarely see in the states!

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Food

Lastly, the food. It’s a meat, potatoes, and bread kind-of diet. Pretty hearty I would say. They love their pork. And we had it in every kind of way – sausages, bacon, chunks, cured fat, grounded up, or wrapped up in cabbage. I remember when we first got to the camp cafeteria; there were these mountains of big sliced white baked bread waiting for us in these baskets in the middle of the table! My first thought, they barely got it during the communism era, and now they can have all the bread they want! Breakfast was typically bread, butter, honey, goat cheese, sausage, and tomatoes (which were amazingly sweet and good). Lunch was typically an appetizer soup (chicken noodle or potato soup) followed by a surprise concoction of chicken and rice, pork and rice, or pork chunks and potatoes. And dinner was typically a meat and potato meal followed by a chocolate wafer dessert. They fed us well! The food was fresh and tasty for the most part although we had a few should-I-say “surprises” along the way! For example, their macaroni and cheese was LITTERALLY cooked macaroni noodles mixed in with chunks of goat cheese. No sauce and no melting action. It happened. But I still ate it because when you’re hungry, you eat.

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Stay tuned! 

This is just my introduction of Romania when we arrived and our general experiences that we had while there! Stay tuned for our adventures in leading worship in a different culture!

Finally made it!

After 18 hours of traveling in and out of airports, transports, and vans we have finally arrived to Timisoara, Romania! Don’t hold your breath, because we still have another 3 hours in the band van to go to Bradatel – east of Timisoara at the foot of the Carpathian Mountains. So what is that? 21 hours of travels… phew… glad to be almost done.

What’s beautiful about all this? –  is the overwhelming support of so many wonderful people  that believe in what we do as a band and ministry – loving God, loving people, and doing everything withLove through music and community service! We are missional, we have reach, and we have influence to impact communities all over the globe for Christ with our powerful and yet simple message of God’s love, hope, and salvation. We are here on the wings of people’s hearts in what we do and that is all the more worth glorifying God for. The deep work that God has done and is doing in our souls and those we encounter is worth glorfiying God for.

I love missions trips because people get to see how we conduct our lives and how we do ministry with what we have in the moment – an opportunity to glorify God under the magnifying glass. The story of our lives being written by God and witnessed by all those around us – all to bring God the glory. God is a provider and He is faithful provide enough to show that it is by His strength and authority that we GET to do what we do and NOT by our strengths and gifts. Depending on Him at this level is unchartered territory of faith that I am in awe of and don’t have the words to express exactly how faithful and awesome God’s planning is.

To fast forward from last years’ shortened adventure to Scotland to now, I am starting to connect the dots and plot line of Gods’ glorious plan for withLove. We could have been so discouraged and disappointed from that Scotland trip that we could have quit doing missions trips for a while. But life has its disappointments, and if ever the greatness of who Jesus is is tested in our lives, it’s when we are in the face of disappointment. Disappointment – defined as that feeling of having missed something that we think should have happened …. a circumstance that seemingly looks like we’re off course from our God-given appointment …. a failed appointment … a missed appointment ….

But God doesn’t disappoint us – our own limited perceptions and expectations disappoint us. No, He is not the one who disappoints us, but instead He appoints us to our glorious future. I’ve realized that He is writing a great story for withLove and our individual lives as we live out each day. And what is a great story without its mountain high conflicts and soaring triumphs? I have realized that disappointments and triumphs will come and go, but our story – our God-story – His story …. is our story to tell those who need to hear about God’s great love, hope, and salvation. Because at the end of the day, God’s story for all our lives is just that – stories of raw love, fear-shattering hope, and vulnerable faith. THAT is the good news, THAT is the expression of His love in us and through us to reconcile people to Christ. His word is kept in our hearts!

I’m going to end on that note, because we haven’t even met any Romanians yet and I’m just overwhelmed by what God is already doing inside my own soul just being here! Here is under grape vines wrapped around a beautiful 4-story vintage house with cool dry winds blowing lightly with the moon shining brightly down on this beautiful city of Timisoara. God’s glory is chasing after the beauty of who He is, even in moments like this. Goodnight.

withLove,

David Warren

Leaning on God's faithfulness

Salud! (That means hello in Romanian!) The time for our departure is quickly approaching. Soon we will be in Romania, pouring the love of God into many people throughout this beautiful country in Eastern Europe. Our hearts are full, and so far this has been a journey of faith and trusting in God. We have been tremendously blessed on the donations ($10,000) and it has been phenomenal to watch what God is already doing. It’s a beautiful process learning to rely on God’s faithfulness! As a team, we have been learning that trusting in God is not always easy. Often we hear the simple phrase, “Trust in God” we take it, and we run with it. But, trust is a verb, it takes work. It takes looking at a situation, not seeing the results, and still working with a heart full of hope to reach the goal. It’s a stretching experience, and it has allowed the band to feel raw and be able to rely on God that they might not have felt the need to rely on him before Romania.

Even throughout the preparation for the trip, we see God’s hand moving, and favoring us. We can all say that we have learned that we do not have to strive because we are His children, and He is our Father. Children do not strive for gifts that were already promised over us, and that’s a reassuring statement. We have had many meetings with Dwight and Dawn, missionaries based in Romania, and it has been a great time learning about the culture, the people, and the hearts.

As a band, we are nervous and excited. We have seen the elbow grease that has been taken to make this trip happen but all in all, it is the faithfulness of Jesus that has brought us this far, and will continue to see us through. Every detail did not go as we planned, but God is faithful, God is always faithful!

We want to personally express our gratitude to all of our donors, and those who have and continue to lift us up in prayer. We cannot wait to share with you all the work that God is doing in Romania!

 

 

Glasgow Aftermath

Hello withLove Family,

We met with the Greater Europe Mission Leadership Team that went on the Scotland Trip and they briefed us on our impact in our short time there as well as what they accomplished in that 10-day trip. Brian Doyle, the director of missions for Greater Europe Mission, was on the skype call and first noted that he was remarked by our response and character to the shocking, unpleasant situation of being detained and denied. He said that we had every right to “shut down” and let the situation get the best of us, but the fact that we pressed in and worshiped and still engaged with the rest of the team was a response he knew God was being honored above all. And it really reflected our character and readiness for the trip. He commented that even though a lot of Christians go on missions trips, when things don’t go “their way”, their true character really shows. And what we went through really spotlighted our hearts for Christ and that we represented Him well in those circumstances.

Our night of worship that we led in Glasgow lifted a lot of anxiety from those that were on the missions trip for the first time and those who were uncomfortable being away from their families. It also set the tone for the missions team as they were compelled to really refocus their hearts on Christ (rather than themselves) on the very first night!

This led to great events and testimonies throughout the week! Members of the team from Chick-fil-a paid for a struggling student’s 4 year college education. The team also led a vacation bible school where the young adult males of the team had a chance to be great male role-models to kids of single-mothers. Exercised patience by many team members during VBS with the kids really gave glory to God in their character and Christ-like demeanor.

The many open slots that withLove was suppose to lead worship in Glasgow, were filled by more outreach to the Muslim community where a lot of milestone bridges were built to reconcile differences between the Muslims and Christians. Some Muslims converted to Christianity along with many other souls that were saved for Christ. They also used that time to network with more churches represented from all over Europe to do more future ministry across Europe as well!

God did amazing things on this trip and it started with us setting the tone and focus on Christ in that one night! Lives were drawn to Christ as a result. The rest of team kept talking about that first night’s worship experience with withLove for the rest of the week and wore our shirts on many days to remind themselves of who we are and what we did! So much so, that the GEM London Field Director would like us to tour his city next Summer with Financial assistance from them! God is awesome!

 

Why didn’t we have Visas? Greater Europe Mission has been doing ministry for many years and based on the information from their team on the ground in the UK, we technically did not require Visas since we were not their under a paid occupation (that requires a Visa). There was also a lot of current political tensions (Scotland is trying to become their own country outside of the UK) mixed with the fact that half the world was coming to their small country. This led to very strict (over-restrictive) customs and borders. However, our occurrence has created a new policy in Greater Europe Mission that all teams going to the UK are required to have Visas from now on.

 

Thank you for your support and prayers! Just like Jesus waited to heal Lazarus 3 days later, Jesus will use the lesser to do the greater! And we know that’s what beginning to happen in our story as well. We are excited for the future and what God plans to do next. Stay tuned for more!Currently, we are on sabbatical from Sept 1 – Oct 16. After a great year of doing ministry together, we are taking this much-needed time to rest, re-evaluate, and pray earnestly for what God has planned for the next ministry year.

 

“This is not fatal. It will become an occasion to show God’s glory by glorifying God’s Son.”John 11:4

withLove.